Let the love go...

You saw a great future with her. She was the best one you could ever meet. You two could be the best pair in the world. But at the end, things did not go as you expected. She is no longer with you.

The situation could be anything. One-side love, in which you were too late to confess. Or an existing relationship - which was the most beautiful thing ever happened to you - but she called it off. 

It was tough to let go when you got no one to blame. She was loving, caring. You did your best and were there for her. But things still ended bad.

It feels very bad. It hurts a lot. You find difficult to focus on things. It's next to impossible that you move on. You try to express how you feel - but the words seem inadequate. You try to tell others - but you are not sure if they get it. Everytime her image comes to your mind, your breathe pauses. You wake from the sleep.

It feels like it never ends. She becomes the biggest regret you ever have in your life. What-ifs haunt you. You blame yourself. 

But remember that she was the best thing that happened to you. She will remain one of the best things happened to you. Maybe the equation was never balanced. You may not have that much impact on her life - which is completely fine. 

The heartbreak songs say too much. 

"I can't imagine life without you."

"I don't want to be just a story in your life."

"My life is with you."

Nope. Honestly they are too dramatic. 

You should live without her. 

You are no longer a major part in her life. 

You will remain as a story in her life. 

Accepting the reality maybe tough. But acceptance helps. Helps to bring peace. Your heat doesn't deserve to suffer.

Maybe don't wish to be with her. Wish for her well being. Wish for her good. Wish for strength. She does not need to be with you for all that.

Let her be herself.

Let her choose and do what she wants.

Let her go. Let the love go.